walking-sidebag-medium-shotWinter is coming!


I for one am incredibly happy about that. It means wool, it means tweed and it means layering without dying from heat.

So, as my first official winter Fancy Friday, I dusted off my woollen pants and built an outfit around them. Black and blue is one of my favourite combinations (I think I’ve said this before, or was it black and grey? Black and grey is also excellent!) The trick with black, is making it seem like you’re not going to a funeral. A black suit is even tricky for day time use, unless you are actually going to a funeral, so it’s best to break it up a little with something lighter up top.

I wanted to carry the textures across this outfit too and you’ll see below that the tie is very textured, while the jacket has a very textured print giving the appearance of texture. That preppy tie can also come across very formal and boring if it’s not paired properly with a shirt, a white shirt may of just been too boring, while the small check in this shirt helped bring it all together I thought. You decide.

pocket-squaremedium-close-uplapel-flowerbagshoesThe details (you know how I love my details) always need to be considered, they’re the elements that will finish your statement – whatever that is. I was going for the “I mean business” look / statement so decided to keep the pocket square and lapel flower in the exact same tonal range as the tie, mostly so that they never pop out and make a louder noise than anything else. This wouldn’t have been a mistake though, something bright and colourful would have made this look a lot less serious. Though, you can tell by my face, i’m all about serious :)

The final touch was the shoes. I was already sporting a shiny leather briefcase, so even though I should of matched leathers and gone for some shiny black shoes ( i had a pair of classic black wingtips on moments before I left the house) I thought I would let the shoes bring in some fun – don’t tell my face -and let them match up with all the blue action happening up top.

Finally, (and I know you’ll agree with me on this) how beautiful is that briefcase? Simple and understated, unlike my outfit. NOW, if you live in Cape Town and think it’s time to treat yourself to a long weekend bag of sorts Calvin Klein at the V&A Waterfront is offering R500 off any bag in store from the 24th – 27th of April. Yeah, thats it, that simple, the leather briefcases are really incredible and if you don’t find something for you, the offer is on ladies bags too, so, maybe do something nice for your other half.

Those of you looking for details on the above outfit:

Sunglasses by RayBan

Blazer from Topman

Shirt by T.M Lewin (available at Edgars)

Tie from Friday Tie Day 

Lapel flower from River Island

Pocket square from Heywood

Briefcase from Calvin Klein

Watch from MVMT

Pants from Ben Sherman (Available locally at Stuttafords)

Shoes from Aldo (Available at Edgars)

Okay. Stay fancy.

Walking---Mastermedium-close-upThe folks over at G-Star RAW asked me a simple question (well, they’re asking everyone to be fair).

Do you wear your jeans tight or wide?

I decided to answer them with this outfit! Keeping it dapper and keeping it tight!

sittingjumpingI was lucky enough to meet up with Shubhankar Ray – G-Star Raws Global Brand Director for a little chat during this years Design Indaba and he is one hell of an interesting man. Anyone who goes from a science lab to the fashion industry is bound to be interesting though I guess.

We chatted about the success of G-Star Raw in South Africa at the moment, something that he attributes to being able to meet the desire for such an aspirational brand by entering the local market with an accessible price point. I couldn’t agree more. No point creating desire for a brand if you never give your consumer a chance to satisfy that desire, and for those of you who keep a close eye on price tags as I do…you would have noticed that G-Star Raw has now dropped from around R4000 a pair of jeans to under R2000 a pair of jeans. Pretty useful that! (They also now have an online store, where you pay what you see, no tax, no duties. FINALLY!)

We also got chatting about their current #TightOrWIde advertising campaign. Now, I say campaign, but really it feels more like research to me, because quite simply it wants to see what the world is wearing, tight or wide!

standing-backstanding---croppedSo far it seems tight is in the lead more so for the gents than for the ladies, but you can see the continued results on the campaign page.

My chat with Shubhankar though revealed that he believes we should start buying into wide pretty soon, the “tight” trend is no longer a trend, it’s been around for over 10 years and is now simply an option. Shubhankar believes when this happens we are always bound to see a shift the other way, so moving toward a looser fitting silhouette, he even went as far as saying he might be investing in a pair of bootleg jeans soon in preparation for yet another 70’s revival. I do hope he is wrong.


For those who want the details on the outfit, here they are:

Beanie and Blazer from Topman

Sunglasses by Ray Ban

Shirt by Ben Sherman – available at Stuttafords

Tie from Friday Tie Day

Pocket square by WeekendCasual

Jeans by G-Star RAW

Shoes by Ted Baker – available at Stuttafords

Okay. Stay fancy.

At last count I had over 20 jeans. Not very acurate I know, but I’m terrible at math.

They’re all in various stages of disrepair (some bought that way) and all in a variety of washes and fits from a plethora of brands.

Recently though, I received my first pair of ‘raw” denim – a pair of G-Star Raw jeans you may have seen me wearing on my Instagram lately – now, raw denim (or dry denim) is denim that has not been washed after dying and is left in a solid un destressed state (SPOILER ALERT for below video)

The only problem for me was…well, how do I keep it like this?

Apparently (according to the salesmen at all high end denim retailers) you should never wash your jeans! Ever! The fabric softener ruins them…blah blah, etc etc.

Fine, but also GROSS!

So I turned to the internet and found this:

I mean, who’s going to argue with Mr Porter right?

Okay. Stay fancy.

Monk StrapsI dont do these posts often, but they started off as one of my blog fundamentals – Education in mens fashion. Not because I was an expert, because I’m certainly not, but because I realised most guys ddint know enough about what they wore to make an educated choice, so between Menswear 101 and Dressiquete I imparted a few tidbits of history and menswear rules (often dictated by history).

I usually put a new post up when I’m speaking to someone and they say something like “What’s a Monk strap” then I realise I still have work to do. Hence the reason for this post.

The monk strap, as the name implies is a shoe style named after the european monks who wore a buckled shoe due to the additional protection they offered in comparison to the sandals they were accustomed to wearing or the ‘difficult to remove’ boots – a problem when walking in and out of monasteries all day I suppose.

For those of you who have no idea what I’m talking about, they look a little something like this. Take note of the labels as I’ll be speaking about them later.

Monk Straps3A strap is defined as a narrow piece of leather used to fasten something or offer support, in this case it combines with the buckle in order to fasten the shoe. This is of course the monk strap’s most defining feature as the quarters of the shoe are fastened with buckles at the side rather than with laces laces in the middle as with the Derby or Oxford shoe.

The number of buckles can and will vary on monk strap shoe, personally I’m not a massive fan of the single monk (1 strap) and find the triple monk to be overkill (or maybe I just haven’t seen one I like), but the double monk…the double monk is like goldilocks and the three bears ie: It’s just right. I only recently acquired my first pair of monk shoes and a second pair followed very quickly after. I now have to stop myself wearing them with everything in fear that they will just get ruined.

These shoes have become such a big part of my wardrobe, I have decided that I have no choice, but to make them a WMBW Essential.

EssentialsDespite having been around for centuries, like most fashion they have only recently made a massive comeback – by recently I’de say the last couple of years.

Their popularity is said to come from the grandfather of style Mr Lino Leluzzi, one of the Sartorialists favourite subjects and owner of the Al Bazar haberdashery (I did a mini feature of him in my Sartorial Sundays #7 post quite a while back) possibly making them the most worn shoe at Pitti Uomo.

Truthfully I think there popularity is owed to their versatility, with these shoes dressing up or down with zero effort. they give a suit an extra dapper edge but feel as much at home paired up with some skinny chinos or even an old pair of jeans – though you maybe want to undo the top buckle for that added sartorial detail in that case.

side-viewunder-shoeback-viewThe shoes above are from Paul Evans, and are possibly one of the most beautiful pair I’ve ever owned. The craftsmanship is impeccable all the way down to a leather sole that matches the colour of the shoe. If you’re in the market for some, You can get them here.

Okay. stay fancy.


Full-length-walkingWho doesn’t love Mad Men? No one right? Well no one reading this blog at least I bet.

I’m quite convinced the show alone has made men want to be men again.

It brought back the tie clip, the 3 piece suit and just being a dapper gentleman in general. It also brought back the classic cocktail – I mean why did we ever stop drinking a delicious beverage like the old fashioned.

Personally I have a slightly closer connection to the show, I mean, I’m no Don Draper, but I am a Creative Director in the advertising industry and FUN FACT I even worked as a creative director at the same agency that the show is inspired by – DDB (Hey, Its not a claim to fame, but I’ll take it)

So, when Birchbox approached me about giving away one of their Mad Men inspired boxes, I didn’t hesitate, in fact my reply was quite simply “I have just the outfit”

Full-length-standingPocket-square-detailShoesStyle wise I’m much more of a Roget Sterling, you see, we seem to share a passion for fitted grey suits and pattern mixing.

So here we have it, a fitted Prince of wales patterned suit, a contrast collar shirt (complete with collar pin), a burgundy silk polka dot tie with colour matching pocket square, a simple brushed steel tie clip and a pair of woven tasselled loafers.

But you guys aren’t here for the pattern mixing today, oh no, you want to know what’s inside this box and of course how you can get your hands on one.

Birchbox-close-upBirchboxThis is what my box contained when it arrived, but yours can contain any number of Mad Men inspired items, and if you subscribe before 11th of April, your first box will be a Birchbox + Mad Men special edition

If you wanna take a chance however at winning a box with 5 full sized products from the collection, here’s how:

Simply head on back to Instagram and re-gram / re-post the ‘Win a Mad Men inspired Birchbox’ picture and use the 3 following hashtags #BirchboxMan #MadMen & #WinWithWMBW Be sure to tag me in your reposts – this is so that I can track entries, so if you leave them out, I wont know you entered.

As Always, here are the Terms and conditions:

• Competition will run from 10:00PM EST on the 5th April 2015 and close at 10PM EST on 6th April 2015

• Competition winner will be drawn via random draw on random.org and announced on or before 10th April 2015

• Competition only open to residence of the United States of America

Now get back to watching the show ill ya!

Okay. Stay Fancy and Good Luck

For those of you wanting details of the above outfit:

Clubmaster sunglasses from Ray Ban

Suit from Topman

Shirt from TM Lewin

Tie from Friday Tie Day

Pocket Square by The Detailed Male

Shoes by Dune London






Final-review-B&BA little while back I did my first ever real travel review of the Rico Suter Country House, about 2 hours outside of Cape Town, great little place, go take a read if you haven’t. Anyway, on our way back home from our weekend away we decided to take a little turn at the Spice Route ‘wine farm’

Now I say ‘wine farm’ because there seems to be a new age of wine farms that are more wine theme parks than farms. Of course they don’t have any of the fun thrill seeking rides you’de expect at a theme park ( the corkscrew seems like a missed opportunity) but are rather culinary experiences to provide you with a full day of family fun. Assuming eating is fun for your family that is.

drivewayBarley-and-Biltong-signall-the-beersbrewing-roomWe arrived at a very full Barley and Biltong during lunch so the hostess recommended we do a quick beer tasting next door at the Cape Brewing Company while we wait for a table. I didn’t object.

They have 2 beer tasting options, R25 for 4 CBC beers or R35 for 6 beers 4 of them CBC and 2 Jack Black beers, reluctantly we went for the 4 beer tasting having spotted the burgers that awaited us at Barley and Biltong we wanted to get back and stuff our faces.

Not only are you in a working brewery, but they have a little beer tour you can take to find out all about the process.  We skipped the tour, because, well, we just wanted to drink the beer, not just look at it. Our “craft beer specialist’ talked us through every beers origin and flavour profile as she expertly poured us our tasters.

Mmmmm. Beeeeeer!

lightspouring-beermmmm...beertasting-beersber-tourThe lager was delicious, but the pilsner won us over, so we stuck to that when we returned to Biltong and Barley for lunch.

The menu isn’t huge, but its not really supposed to be I don’t think, its a craft burger joint, they do burgers, they do them well. Stick to what you know seems to be their philosophy.

We decided to give all the options a try, so ordered a bowl of biltong ( a form of beef jerkey for my american readers), the caraway salted Bretzel with butter and the ‘Tafelburger’ which draws it’s name from Cape Town’s famous Table Mountain landmark, though at R95.00 I thought I might be buying the actual mountain.

Menus2-beersbeer-moustacheBiltong-(whole)biltongThe biltong was delicious, though a little dry for my liking, then again, i should have asked for moist, or maybe have gone for something different like one of the game biltongs on offer.

The burger, I can honestly say was worth every cent. Thick, juicy, covered in mature cheddar and a home made tomato sauce, it really caught me off guard as I honestly wasn’t expecting that amount of awesome in my mouth! The chips were okay, they felt a little processed and certainly didn’t deserve to share the plate with the burger, either way, we left none behind.

The bretzel didn’t really feature to be honest. I mean, we ate it, but why did we even order that?


Definitely go for the burgers. I know I’ll be back, I mean, look how happy I am in that photo!!!

After lunch we walked around a little, had a chocolate tasting and finished off with a very milky flatwhite (nothing worse). There’s quite a bit to still see and do at Spice Route, so we’ll definitely be back to try one of the other culinary rides.

Barley and Biltong is open everyday and you can contact them on 021 863 4539 or drop them a mail at info@barleyandbiltong.co.za for bookings and stuff.


Okay. Stay fancy.

DW---WIN-HeaderA couple of months ago, as part of my “Essentials” category I wrote a post about the dress watch featuring Daniel Wellington. Today I’m super excited to be giving one of these watches away to one of you guys.

I only have 2 Daniel Wellington watches in my collection, but with all the interchangeable straps, it’s become my go to watch for any outfit.

DW-Watch-Grace-GreenDW-watch---St-AndrewDW-Watch-Grace-BlueBut enough about how fancy they look on MY wrist, lets find out how we can get one on to yours.

As usual, I’m going to be running this competition via my Facebook Book and twitter as it’s the easiest way to keep track of the entries and contact you if you win.

The entry mechanism is simple:

Viist www.danielwellington.com and pick the watch you want to win.

Yeah, its that simple.

Then leave me a comment on my Facebook page under the “WIn – Daniel Wellington Watch” post with the watch name.


Tweet “I want to win a (watch name here) @DW_Watches with @WhatMyBFWore”

You can do either of the above, or both if you would like 2 entries – yeah Im generous like that.

Im not gonna force you to Follow Daniel Wellington on Face Book or Twitter – but lets say it wouldn’t hurt.

Here are the T&C’s:

1 – Competition opens on the 16 March 2015.

2 – Entrants must either tweet or leave a Facebook comment as their entry.

3 – Competition open to anyone anywhere in the world and your prize will be shipped to you.

4 – Competition will close on the 23 March 2015.

5 – Winner will be selected via random draw and announced before 27 March 2015

That’s it folks. Good Luck.

Okay. Stay Fancy.



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